Dec 15, 2023 |
WLSU, Ad Advent Progress Report
| The Rev. Philip DeVaulWLSU, Ad Advent Progress Report
How is the buildup to Christmas going for you? Are you experiencing hope and joy and all that? Are you being festive enough? Are you feeling all the correct feelings? I want to take this opportunity to remind you that there is no one right way to experience Christmas. Our feelings and expectations surrounding Christmas are endlessly complicated and there’s no reason for us to pretend otherwise.
In the church we call the post-Thanksgiving pre-Christmas season Advent: It’s a word which, aptly, means “coming” – as in, “Oh no Christmas is coming and we are not ready.” Funny enough, most of the Bible readings assigned for Advent aren’t about the joy of Christmas – they are about the surprise, dread, hope, fear, and expectation that accompanies Jesus showing up. As in, “Oh no, Jesus is coming and we are not ready.”
There is no perfect Christmas. There is no way to get it all right. There is no way to win. And yet we fret every year as if our worrying will bring about perfection.
I have never had a perfect Christmas. But I love this season so much. I love it in its ridiculousness and tension. I love the songs and early dark and the lights. I’m 44 and I’m realizing I don’t care at all what my presents are (so long as I get some). I wouldn’t mind a Toblerone in my stocking. Mostly I just want it to snow, I want to sing Christmas carols at church, and I want to watch Christmas Vacation.
But I know. I know even though I make it sound like I’m easy to please, that I am no different than you. I too am carrying complicated feelings and hopes into the next few days.