Sep 06, 2024 |
WLSU, Waiting (Tables) for the Lord
| The Rev. Philip DeVaulWLSU, Waiting (Tables) for the Lord
Aside from spilling beer down someone’s back or getting an order wrong, when waiters screw up is when we forget our role: We can think it’s our job to please everyone. We can think we are supposed to be the diner’s best friend, or that people came to the restaurant to see us. Contrarily, we can treat the whole thing as transactional. We can get snippy and short with the kitchen. I would take myself too seriously and get self-righteous. One time the manager pulled me aside and sat me down because I yelled at him and the line cooks, “Well SOMEONE oughta care about the tables, and apparently it won’t be any of YOU.” That’s right: I got put into time out for being too self-righteous.
Waiting tables for the Lord – has similar pitfalls. What I noticed when I went on sabbatical was just how much I was carrying. And some of that is just part of the job – there’s a lot of emotional labor in the facilitating of relationships. But some of what I was carrying was because I was forgetting my role. Thinking I was supposed to please everyone, or that I was supposed to be everyone’s best friend, or that I was the star of the show. I can treat my role as transactional too – not in the sense of trying to get you to tip me – but in the sense that I can think that I have to earn your approval by doing enough things just right. And in both the restaurant and the church I can get too serious and self-righteous.
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